Describe Your Family Dynamic of Your Childhood vs. Your Family Dynamic Now
Well, those that have read my past blogs know that I didn’t have the best home life, my mother was bi-polar and my dad worked evenings so really wasn’t around to protect me from her. My parents were middle class, both worked, my mother was a hair dresser and my father was a caretaker at a school. They owned their home and we moved quite a few times, my mother always wanted a bigger and better house. I was the only child and both my parents were together until I left home the second time when I was 16. That was when they separated, my mother moved to Israel to look for God and my dad moved to a new house.
My family dynamic today is I am a single mom with 2 kids, I do own my own home and I work. Right now, we are lower middle class, and I am trying to work my way up the ladder to a better status. I did go through a depression over the last year, but outside of that, I don’t have any mental health issues, and I have never hurt my children. I don’t plan on moving from here till my son is starting high school, but I do plan on staying in the area. My daughter is 22 and still lives at home, where she is probably a little too comfortable, but for now, that’s ok. There isn’t nearly as much drama in my life now, than in my childhood. Things are relatively quiet and good, our family is loving and kind and I think I put a lot of what I didn’t have growing up into my life because this is how I wanted my childhood to be.